If you had unlimited confidence, what would you do with it?
Amy would apply for that dream job.
Kerry would move to Europe.
Tina would have the motivation to lose those extra pounds she's been meaning to lose.
Diane would know how to attract Mr. Right.
Sally would communicate in a charismatic way with men.
Heather would leave the relationship she felt she was settling in
Candice would join that dating site.
Have you thought what you would do if confidence weren't an issue?
Grab a pen and piece of paper and, I want you to write down three things you would do if confidence weren't an issue.
Once you have determined why confidence is important to you, your next step is to take action. Here are 3 powerful ways to unlock your internal confidence.
1: Adjust your focus
The only way to change something is to find a solution. If you focus on the problem, you give that issue the momentum to grow in size: more reasons to feel bad, more opportunities to put yourself down, more experiences to fear.
Focusing on solutions instead of problems is one of the best things you can do for your confidence. This is why I love being a coach; we are resolution centered. "I'm unhappy and single!" So how can you solve that? "But I don't know how to attract a good man!" So how can you solve that? "But I do not know what strategies to use" So what's the solution? Look at your struggles in life as opportunities? What can help you solve your problem?
2: Practice Gratitude
I believe the quickest way to get into alignment with your higher powerful woman is to practice gratitude. Appreciation, positivity, and love are equal to alignment, confidence, and happiness. Gratitude is always the opposite of resistance and insecurity, so let appreciation always be your starting point when you are in a negative state or mindset. Make it a point to find things to be thankful for.
3: Empower yourself with knowledge
Knowledge will always equal power, and power always gives you the ability to influence those around you, especially a man. In general, awareness is the key strategy for unlocking your internal confidence because when you know better, you do better, and this is the beauty of knowledge - it’s renewable. Knowledge doesn’t expire– you can use it over and over again. Even if everything else was taken from you, no one can take away your dignity which is supported with confidence, and created through knowledge.
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