- Jan 8, 2021
- 3 min read
When we have a desire like a relationship or true love, it can be hard to consider that it is on its way because we as humans always need evidence to believe. We still need to see the physical manifestation of something to acknowledge it’s realness.
This human flaw is interesting because we can be happy, excited, and hopeful in receiving what we want even if we don’t yet have it. It’s as though we experience the feelings we would have if it were already ours. The problem is as soon as we focus externally on someone else already having the desire that we want, we automatically go back to feeling the lack of it in our lives. Our thoughts become negative, which causes us to disconnect and move away from what we want to attract.
When you study the Law of Attraction, it is evident that to manifest our desires; there HAS to be some level of faith—having the confidence and trust that it is yours even if you can’t see it with your eyes or hear it with your ears.
Think of it this way being without “him” has caused you to want “him,” and being with the wrong men has caused you to become super clear about the type of love you want. In other words, you have created this magnificent man and relationship that your soul knows to be real even if you have not yet experienced it. You know this because when you think of this relationship, you are in total alignment with happiness, fulfillment, passion, and love. So this relationship already exists on an energy level, and what are we if we are not energy? The very atoms of our physical bodies are made of energy. We are powerful.
So don’t worry about when he’s coming and instead get focused on other things that make you feel good, and before you know it, you’ll become a magnet attracting incredible people, relationships, and opportunities to you. Being aligned to all the feelings you would feel if you obtained that desire opens you up to receive it quicker because you are a match to it.
Trust that the timing of this extraordinary relationship and man is perfect. You need to come into alignment with who you are, and he needs to be in alignment with who he is. When you are both connected to the best versions of yourselves individually, the bond of the relationship will be magical.
So your number one goal is to feel good NOW and align yourself with your powerful “Girl with Game” and that incredible relationship you are longing for will emerge. It is being drawn to you as you read this. You are meant to be reading this which is why you are.
When you pay attention to positive thoughts, your potential for attracting positivity increases. Like attracts like and therefore you turn yourself into a magnet. This is why I put together 30 of my favorite LOA strategies and prompts to help you align with your desires and change the course of your life.
You are the creator of your reality…this is YOUR story… YOUR journey. Life doesn’t have to happen to you; it can happen with you and for you.
If you want to unlock the code of receiving click HERE to start manifesting the things you want with the Law of Attraction workbook journal!
All my love
Leandra
xxx
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What does it mean to be a high-value woman?
It's not about looks, money, or being unbothered all the time. High-value means your standards are reflected in your behaviour, not just your words. You don't tolerate what doesn't serve you. You don't perform for attention. You don't shrink to keep someone comfortable. It's a posture, not a personality.
How do I become more feminine in a relationship?
Stop trying to manage the outcome. Masculine energy controls; feminine energy receives. If you're the one initiating, planning, fixing, chasing — you're in masculine mode and his masculine has nowhere to go. Step back. Let him show you what he'll do when you stop doing it for him.
How do I stop chasing him?
Stop reaching for the phone when you feel insecure. Stop double-texting. Stop initiating plans. Stop being the one keeping the connection warm. It will feel unbearable for about 5 days. Then it stops feeling unbearable. Then you realise how much energy you were spending propping up something he wasn't carrying his share of.
How do I make a man pursue me?
You don't make him. You become someone worth pursuing — and then leave space for the pursuit to happen. If you fill every gap, there's nothing for him to close. Most women lose pursuit by trying to make it easier for him. Pursuit requires friction. Don't be hard work. Just stop being the one doing the work.
Should I always wait for him to text first?
Not always. But in early dating, yes. The frequency he chooses to contact you in the first 3 months tells you exactly how much he wants to be in your life. If you're filling the silence, you're getting fake data. Let him show you the real number.